If only the visit would be so fun and joyous. Don't get me wrong Hawaii is an amazing place but its not the rainbows and ukulele songs that we all hear when we imagine a getaway. There are certain customs and rules that you must follow when going to Hawaii because of the celebrated and rich history and us being Ha'oles (foreigners) we are almost sure to know none of these customs. My friend from Hawaii and I were talking yesterday about little known important facts and she told me that you have to be at least 75% Hawaiian to be able to even step foot on Lana'i. The strange thing about that is, that there are no 100% Hawaiians because they come from Somoa or Tonga or other small Pacific Islands. It's really easy to see that this surprises most people who hear that their notions and thoughts of the people of Hawaii aren't completely Hawaiian. The way that she says they treat outsiders is also very conflicting with the way that we see nice jolly Hawaiians. They aren't very tolerant of those who aren't from the same kind of backgrounds as they are. For example there is a song called Hawai'i Pono'i sang at all the games and even graduations. She said that she was part of a group that was to sing at the graduation and she was singled out because they didn't want a ha'ole singing their traditional song and she ended up not singing because of their immense close-mindedness.
This just goes to show you that anywhere that you go there are unspoken but well-known traditions that we foreigners are completely oblivious to; even in The United States!
(This is the traditional song Hawai'i Pono'i)